Today's passage from Luke 14 comes "marked up" with the heading, The Cost of Discipleship. Not that the ESV translators were totally off base. But, in fact, there are three things Jesus says are the costs of discipleship. They are actually three contractual challenges, and I have broken up the text below so you can see them:
1) If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.
2) Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.
(For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’ Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace.)
3) So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple."
Now, before you start thinking what hard, unreasonable things these are for Jesus to say or dismiss them as some kind of sweet pietism as if Jesus meant them figuratively, it would be good to know that in the First Century most rabbis had disciples, and any good rabbi would have clearly laid out the contract that was necessary for a young man to study (we would say "follow") a particular rabbi and his teaching. For purposes of our discussion though, let's be gender-neutral. The Contract of Discipleship that Jesus lays out here applies to all, men or women, who would follow him. And I will make three even more radical statements: Jesus actually meant what he said. Jesus actually did what he told us to do. Jesus actually means us to do what he asks.
The Contract can be condensed like this:
No questions asked
No matter what
No cost too great
No questions asked. Someone once told a group of us in a message he was preaching that, in boot camp if the drill sergeant tells you you're going to clean toilets with a toothbrush the proper answer is a snap to attention, a salute, and "Just happy to be here, sir." I don't know if that's true, but it certainly sums up the first clause of the contract. Jesus is not telling you that you have to actively hate your family. The greek word isn't usually translated that way. But he is asking us what our intentions are toward him. That's why he frames the clause in terms of family relationships. What is your intent? Your intent must be to place Christ first in all situations, even when it appears that you have chosen him over your spouse, your children, your parents. That's what Jesus means when he quizzes Peter on the beach in John 21. "Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?" "Yes, Lord," Peter replied, "You know that I love you." No questions asked.
No matter what. In expressing this second clause, Jesus is laying out for us the extent of our service and how far we have to be willing to go with him. If you want to be a disciple and someday someone compels you to carry a cross out of the city and up to a hill where you will be crucified because you bear the name of Christ, the question has already been settled. You will do it. When the early Christian martyr Polycarp was put to death in 168 AD, the judge tied him to a stake on a pile of wood and said,
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